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Could your friend be depressed?
If you think this is the case then strongly
suggest she see her doctor. She can be
helped.

If you don't think depression is the
problem, it's OK to limit your time with
her. When you are together try to be a
good example. Point out the good things
she's missing. But be careful, and
remember, it's easy to join in the
complaining and it can quickly become a
habit.

Katie

Dear Happy,
Be honest with your friend. Tell her
nicely that she has a habit of being
negative.

If she's still speaking to you, ask her if
she would like your help. She might
want you to gently remind her when she
starts with the negativity.
If she isn't still speaking to you, I hate to
say it but your problem is solved.

Diana

Dear Happy,
I would rather not hear the negative all
the time either.
What I have done in the past, is answer
back with something positive. Pretty soon
the point is made... Or if she asks why
you're doing this, tell her you would
rather be around her when she isn't
dragging things down all the time.

Maureen

Dear Sisters,
I have a friend who is very negative.
She doesn't seem to notice the good
things around her. Even when we are
having a nice time she points out any
flaw or problem she sees.
I'm finding ways to avoid her, but should
I say something instead?

Would rather be happy in Seattle

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Diana

Katie